Happy New Year

To every one who is reading this HAPPY NEW YEAR. 

At this time of year, it becomes a little quiet, but I still ocassionally have one or two regulars. That like to come and see Me here at the dungeon, and treat Me, either to a gift or taking Me out for diner, wich is very nice as I see them from another perspective. But they never forget, and still treat Me with the respect I deserve, so are you feeling tense?, have you an itch you cannot scratch?, is there some thing you want but dont know what?. 

well then ring Me, make your appointment, then you can be un-tensed at the hands of your favourite Mistress, and then I will scratch your itch away, I can give you the some thing you don't know what!!!


I am available again as from Wednesday 6th  January onwards, phone after 9am but before 6pm for your booking

Merry Christmas

Well its that time of the year again, Christmas eve, my how it seems to come round quicker every year!. All I can say about that is I trust all the readers of this blog a very Merry Christmas and a very pervy 2010, that said, lets look back on 2009 and forward to 2010.

Well 2009 has seen major work take place in the dungeon, from the bathroom to the kitchen and the green room is all but there. In fact all that remains is a few small decorating tasks (volunteers welcome), the dungeon has got double doors now separating it from the chill out area. I feel the Mistresses, have taken to all the modifications like ducks do to water.

In fact I have heard nothing but good comments from those that attended the interactive play party at the start of the month. Lets see if Madam Ursula will have another in the near future, if she gets enough feed back asking for another, no begging for another. I am sure she will oblige.

Looking ahead now to February Myself and Madam Ursula, are going to be visiting The Manchester Dungeon again ( http://www.themanchesterdungeon.com ). It will be good to see Mistress Julia and all the other Mistresses again. If you wish to book a session while we are there book through either Mistress Julia or Madam Ursula, a non refundable deposit will be required. My altered ego has been challenged again from the person called the wife, should be interesting smiles and winks at Mistress Julia.

As the spring arrives in 2010 we will again be having themes for our Saturday night parties, BBQ being just one. I look forward to comments and ideas coming back to us here at http://www.ourkinkyplace.com

The Essex Master & Madam Ursula
and every one else at Our Kinky Place

Christmas Party

To all who missed the Christmas party, although the weather was raining we did have a few more turn up than of late. I decided that as it was Christmas a party isn't a party without a few games to get us in the spirit. No humbuggers were allowed, I deceided a tug of war was in order for the boys two boys had thier cock and balls tied to a long piece of rope and told to get on to thier hands and knees. Oh I forgot to mention I placed bells on there cocks and balls, after telling them the rules (basiclly there were no rules) I placed a spreader bar on the floor as the winning line for the tug of war they were about to begin. I then told them to pull as hard as they could to get the winning flag over the winning line (spreader bar). The winner of course got to lick Mistresses new red thigh boots (see pictures at http://www.madamursula.com gallery). The looser got 6 of the best from My nice whippy cane.

Not forgetting the female subbies, we clingfilmed each one neck to toe tightly, then helped them onto the floor (see I can be nice) once there they were told to wriggle to the end of the dungeon. The winning slug had to touch the end wall with thier nose and return to the start. The winning slug received a hot waxing on her back, however the loosing slug was sturng up in the green room, and received 25 strokes of the flogger from two male Dom's.

So all in all we had a wonderfull party, all those that came will no doubt be looking forward to My next one in January 2010.

Madam Ursula 07833 332369

I am available all this week for sessions until 7pm each day

I'm Back

Back to work doing the things I enjoy after having a nice break away.

My first client was a real treat for Me as I do love humiliating him, I made him dress as a fairy and dance around My dungeon singing Christmas carols, What a pathetic sight to see those hairy legs trying to dance in pink high heels.

I then tied him to the bondage board, I warmed him up and then placed clover clamps on his nipples and put the chain in his teeth and made him hold his head up and warned him if he let go of the chain he would be severely punished.

I then went on to another favourite of mine cock and ball torture, I started off with flogging his small penis and putting pegs on his balls, and then pulled them off, then came the electrics with all this stimulation it made it extremely hard for him to keep the chain in his mouth as always he was unable to please Me, the pathetic weasel let go of the chain and yelped in pain and realised he was in for more punishment which ended with a good flogging. All in all he enjoyed his session and has booked Me for 22nd as he says its his Christmas present to himself and he also said he would be bringing Me My gift, I can't wait I do so love getting presents.

My next was a sissy maid who loves to clean, today I made her dust the dungeon and My beauty room, hoover and just generally clean everything. I got her to make Me cups of tea and go out still dressed as a maid and get Me some lunch, I ordered her to clean all My shoes and boots while I was eating, and as she had been so good I let her lick and suck My favourite pair of bright red high heel shoes that I was wearing today.

Interactive party

Today was the interactive party, which started just after 1pm. Two people text Me at the last minute to say they had to work, and another two didn't. They are now in My bad books, so when I next see them they will be severley punnished. The ones that did turn up thouroughly enjoyed themselves, so did the Mistresses and Master. From bondage, electric play, spanking, flogging, cbt, nipple torture and games, the party went from strength to strength.

Every one attending enjoyed them selves, from the slaves up wards, fun and frolics was had by all. The bondage boards saw more bodies on it than it has done for a good few weeks, the cross was occupied for a long period. The green room was greatly appriciated by Mistress Kimberley for some flogging practice, this I might add was more to keep her arm fit than for the practice.  But her saying practice sounded good to Me.

The tv room had a fair amount of dressing going on in it, we had some very good looking girlies transformed in there. Talk about from he to she, Mistress Kimberley worked her magic in there at times. I had a couple of right tarty sluts in all forms of bondage, at times even bound together just for My amusement.

I had My boots well cleaned by two slaves, from the tip of the toe to the top of the boot, My how the tounges worked as the one that done the poorest job, was to be punnished. My black pair of boots are now spotless even the soles are shining. But however I still have another pair that are in need of cleaning, any offers?.

All in all this interactive party has encouraged Me to want to hold more of them. If any of you have any comments or ideas for future parties, you know my email address but just in case you don't here it is    themadamursula@aol.com 07833 332369 is My number.

Oh and if you wanted to know the finer details, of what we all got up to, all I can say is that if you had been there, you would know and not be wondering. So if you really want to know the finer points of an interactive play party you need to attend it.

Till the next party

Madam Ursula.

The Saturday night Play Party

Well what a night Saturday was at the dungeon. It was play party night and it certainly lived up to its name, grins.

There was all sorts going on, there were two house Domme's Madam Ursula, and Mistress Kimberley, plus Myself The Essex Master. miss behavin was kept well busy by the three visiting Masters, she was tied in all manor of positions. By the end of the night she had a rather nice shade of red arse.

I played with a very large busted and hippy submissive that was all on her own, I tied her tormented her. Then it was time to flog her, she took so much so easily. It was then I got the cobra out, a mean single tailed whip. The cobra left nice little red weals all over her arse. I then warmed her down and she had drinks and went back to socialising with the others. But before the end of the evening, she managed to spill a glass of coke on the floor, so I took her back to the cross and repeated her earlier single tail whipping. She left for home a very very happy subbie.

I am looking forward very much to Friday's interactive slave play party, as here the play will be just as advertised interactive. I have it on very good authority that what will happen will happen. I look forward to it as, as afternoon parties go this will be one to beat all others I'm sure of that.

I am available all week, so if you want a session ring Me 07979 253707.

my weekend

Well i have had a busy weekend had a couple of clients on Friday and went to the fetish party on Saturday night at our kinky place.

On Friday my first client turned up at 11am. He instructed me to kneel in front of him with my head down and my hands flat on my knees and told me how he expected me to behave and went through the safe words with me. Next he instructed me to remove my skirt and top he then put a blindfold on me and cuffed me to the cross. He warmed me up and then went on to use floggers, crops and canes, he then put me on the bondage table where he took off my bra and did nipple torture among other things. All in all it was a very good session which i enjoyed, he must of enjoyed it as much as i did as he has booked another appointment to see me next Thursday.

My next client arrived at 1pm this was a completely different session to the first, this Master enjoyed spanking my bottom and teasing me, he also blindfolded me to make it more intense. He then went on to do rope bondage on me in the green room which is specially designed for rope work, He left with a big smile on his face and said he would book another appointment with me in the new year.

On Saturday i went to our kinky place fetish night, where I had a very nice evening. There was a Master there who is into rope bondage and me being me let him tie me up and tease me, he put me into all sorts of positions with his rope work, i lost all track of time i believe we played for a hour and half. Afterwards i socialised with Mistress Kimberley, Madam Ursula, The Essex Master and the other like minded people there, it was a very enjoyable evening and i am looking forward to the next party on 12th December

Saturday night fun

To all that keep an eye on My blog postings. Tomorrow night Saturday 28th from 8pm till late, I am having a play party at the dungeon. So why not find your glad rags and joint Me and the other Mistresses and Masters for some interesting fun and games.

If you are  a Mistress, Master, tv, cd, slave, submissive or any thing else in between you are more than welcome. To come and take part.

Ps there are still a few places left for the slaves inter active party.

Madam Ursula 07833 332369

Interactive party reminder

Hello everyone

I hope you have read up about the up coming interactive slave party. It is some thing different that might interest you so either ring text or email if your interested in coming along, as places are filling.

I aim to enjoy Myself, as does Mistress Kimberly who will be attending, see her at either http://www.mistresskimberley.info or at http://www.ourkinkyplace.com The Essex Master will also be putting in an appearance probably if required.

It is a day time party in the week so more of you should be able to attend.

Don't forget I am available all week so ring for your booking 07833 332369  I feel very much like playing with you naughty boys.

Madam Ursula

Party date

Hello to everyone who pops in, as we all know Christmas is coming. So I thought why not have an early Christmas present for My followers like any present there is a price. But we'll come back to that in a moment, this present is for those who have thought of trying, but never doing some thing they've fantasied about.

So this is a party in the afternoon between 1pm and 5pm on Friday 4th December, so treat yourself there will be Myself, the Essex Master and one or 2 other Mistresses yet to be finalised, and quite probably female subbie. So be brave book early (follow the instructions on My website http://www.madamursula.com ), I look forward to seeing who is brave enough to bring there thoughts and fantasies to reality.

But be warned this party may offend those that are not wanting to interact. My parties do go where ever they go, as I do not plan anything in advance, they end up where they end up. But everyones safe words are respected. If your worried about being recognised don't be as everyone attending is wanting the same as you. I do however a few hoods available to those that wish to wear them.

Madam Ursula

PS I will be available all next week Monday- Friday inclusive, from 10am - 7pm  07833 332369

My cock and ball torture morning!

Hello to all of those following Me, this is the first of many blogs I will write on this site.

I have had quite an eventful morning, I was woken by petal at 8am begging to confirm his appointment for 12 noon, shortly followed by peggy (he gets his name from the amount of pegs he had on his cock and balls ) confirming his 10.30am appointment.

peggy arrived promptly on time, just as he was told. I then ordered him to strip off and I dressed him as a slut, I then hooded him and confined him on the cross where i warmed him up. Afterwards I placed him on the whipping bench where I gave him a light spanking warming him up for the insertion of the butt plug. I finished off with him in the confinement cupboard where I did some cock and ball and nipple torture on him where I used 24 pegs just on his balls. I then made him relieve himself in front of Me.

petal again arrived promptly for his 12 noon appointment, where I dressed him as a maid this time, I then went on to verbally humiliate him by making him dance, I then invited The Essex Master to join us to comment on his dancing and his maiding behaviour, he was made to curtsy when The Essex Master left the dungeon. I used a butt plugs on the sissy where i made him relieve himself into a wine glass it barley covered the bottom.

All in all I had an enjoyable day, lets see what Saturday brings when I am at the dungeon again from 10am - late evening. My phone number in case you have forgotten it is 07765995461.

pro submissive

Hi there i am new to writing this blog stuff. I am miss behaving i am a pro submissive who has been into the life style for the last 5 years. I use the fully equipped dungeon in the Clacton on Sea area that is called http://www.ourkinkyplace.com

I will switch for the right person, but i am predominately submissive and enjoy most things, i am a strong believer in safe words that way both parties still have a little control in the situation if needed.

I quite often attend the parties that are held at our kinky place by Madam Ursula, and these parties tend to be interactive. I enjoy these parties as you can try out lots of things that you can't always experience with a one to one, as these parties tend to have a virtually anything goes policy.

I am available Friday 20th November from 10am - 5pm bookings are fast filling if you wish to attend it is best to ring as soon as possible as the places are first come first served, 07717164602.
If you would like to see a picture they are on http://www.ourkinkyplace.com

newbee

like most of us,Ive visited sites and read articles on your own particular brand of kink, perversion call it what you will. but actually visiting a real live walking breathing mistress seems like a huge step. However after making contact and arranging a date, i confirmed and arrived at my Mistress's chambers.
i was greeted at the door and shown into the chill out room and put at my ease and was asked to fill out a activity list so that my mistress would know my likes and dislikes , also what i had experienced before and what i thought of my previous experiences.
now that i was at ease, if that is at all possible as i was still quaking in my shoes, i was told to undress and enter the separate dungeon. greeted by the sight of all the equipment and floggers i felt nervous, but very excited, which did not go unnoticed by Mistress!.
however after securing me , Mistress relaxed me by using some very sensual moves, and then started teasing and torturing me, as mistress says no pain no pleasure !
i was glad that that things like safe words had been explained to me although mistress seemed to have a six sense as just how far to take me, so no safe words were necessary.
after a very interesting hour, i as released and after a shower, and a chat with Mistress to see how i enjoyed my self. I went home a very drained ,but happy person

The painslut

Well Friday 13th was a turn up for the book's, the last booking I was going to see was 7pm. It wasn't booked until about 4pmish, but what a surprise it turned out to be. It was painslut, I haven't sessioned with her in over 6 or 7 years maybe more.

So as I let her in she sais she would probably be wimpish, as it had been so long since she had played. I took her to the green room where I made her strip naked. I turned the heating off for added discomfort to start, I was getting cold dressed in black leather.

I took My time in stretching her out in a cross shape from the heavy metal frame, pulling the ropes that bit tighter for added discomfort making her shoulder joints and hip joints really pull to just inder disjointing force. I then pulled the heavy punishment hood on her lacing it as tight as it would go. The the the straps again pulling the eye and ear pads very very tightly into place, last but not least the chin straps so that no movement was at all possible from her mouth.

Now she was ready to be flogged, I started off with light floggers and light strokes gradually building up to the heavy ones and full force strokes. She was by now trying to move against her bonds but each time she tried, all she succeeded in doing was extremely hurting her joints, by now she was very red from the top of her shoulders to the top of her thighs. Bruising was now showing on her lower back. No blood though this time. maybe if she books again soon. Her hour hour had long since passed as it was 20 to 9 ish.

I undid the straps on the hood, then the laces followed by her ankles as you should for safety. Last but not least her wrists. I then bent her over the bend over and gave her 100 hard strokes of the whippy cane. This left hight weals on her bum, the skin just breaking, I then rubbed in a mixture of vinegar and salt into these skin breaks. She hollowed at the vinegar salt compound like a cat.

By now it was pushing 10pm and as she left she replied I will be back again soon Sir.

The essex Master

Play Party 14th

Those of you that have booked for this event, please don't forget to ring Me on 07913 065342 so that I can give you the address and directions on how to get there.

Those of you that havn't booked there are still 4 places left, but remember that this being held in My own private dungeon in Clacton on Sea Essex 8pm till late.

I'm so looking forward to this event.

Madam Ursula

Party Dates?

I'm fully booked today, but still have a few sessions available for tomorrow the 13th November. Are you brave enough to see Me on Friday the 13th?. If you think you have the nerve book soon as places are fast filling up.

I am thinking on having an interactive party in the next 2 or 3 weeks, I am looking for your suggestions as to dates and times that are best for you. If you don't intend on coming please DO NOT suggest times and or dates. The party will run for 3 or so hours for a tribute that would normally be for just a 1 hour session. There will be more Mistresses that Me in attendence plus a possible Master.

I'm Back

Well I'm back on My feet again after an enforced break due to
a small operation. So if  you missed visiting Me due to My
enforced break, I am now available for session's daily. But it
is best to book at least the day before as I envisage getting
rather busy now that I am back.

I can also do double sessions for double the trouble with
either the Essex Master of one of the other Mistresses, but
double the trouble sessions needs to be prebooked at least
two days in advance.

Being laid up as I was I got itchy feet and need to experiment
on willing bodies, for nipple torture and cock and ball torture.
So I am looking for some one to massage My feet with baby
oil as a Mistress is always on them, and a shoulder massage
for all the flogging that I do. My bondage ropes are in need
of a stretching to get rid of the kinks.

So just in case you have lost My phone number, which if you
have you will be severley punished here it is 07833 332369.
Don't leave ringing to late.

Available Friday 13th

Just a quickie to let everyone know that I will
be available all day on Friday 13th November.

As you may or may not know, I indulge in
fetishes ranging from bondage, cbt, cp,
breast play, clit play and various tortures
through to almost any fetish you ask for.
I have been around a long time and
honestly nothing you may wish shocks
this Master.

So if you want to make a booking for that day
with Me ring Me on 07979 253707.

I will be there for who ever wants to book,
but don't leave it to long as places fill up
quickly.

The Essex Master

The first post

So this is the first post on this blog.

A Master beating the Mistresses to it that's a first!, but I am
sure the Mistresses will wake up soon. They need to as this
blog is for all that are resident at Our Kinky Place, I'm sure
that all the clients will be reading these postings with great
interest. Any way back to the working's at the chambers.

The green room that is dedicated to bondage, but can be
used for flogging and various other past times including cbt
nipple torture etc. Soon it will be used for suspension also.

The main dungeon is fully equipped with a cross bondage
board, spanking bench and confinement cupboard. In here
Masters and Mistresses can perform almost any fetish that
can be thought of.

Then there is the fully tiled shower room, so you can have
a shower before or after your session. So this great venue
is ready for all that wish to use it with the resident Dominants,
also there is a resident female submissive. Guest Mistresses
and Masters also make appearances.

So the address on the web is http://www.ourkinkyplace.com


The Essex Master